Edit ModuleShow Tags

A Case of Brunch Envy

Parental Indiscretion


Published:

Brunch Illustration

One of the joys-slash-curses of being an expectant parent is those nuggets of unsolicited advice you get from family, friends, and perfect strangers.

Most of the time, they’re actually warnings. “Sleep all you can now!” people tell you, when what they really mean is, “You’ll soon weep at the memories of lazing around in bed on the weekends.”

But no one ever warns you that you’ve seen your last good brunch for a decade or more, do they? It’s something you’d never think to cherish.

Recently, I witnessed a few child-free twentysomethings complaining about brunch on Twitter. “Brunch is the worst,” these ingrates said, as they commiserated over the hassle of waiting for their hungover friends to wake up (presumably in the late morning); the food’s being “just okay”; and how drinking at breakfast results in needing to nap—and then your whole day is shot.

Oh. My. Gawd. Cry me a river of spicy Bloody Marys.

"Never put yourself in the position of choosing between ordering coffee or a Bloody Mary."

Here’s my perspective on these “problems”: You get to make a game-time decision to hang out with your friends (who are sleeping till late morning!). Then someone makes you a pretty decent breakfast. At which you get to drink bubbly. After which you get to take a nap and waste the entire day.

Other complaints: Brunch is too late in the morning to wait for that first cup of coffee, the waits for a table are interminable, and other diners act obnoxious.

It dawned on me that this is a classic life paradox. Child-free people don’t appreciate brunch because they’re not doing it right—and they won’t learn how to do it right (and therefore appreciate it) until they have kids.

So please heed these tips from a grizzled old mom who only occasionally gets to escape her kids.

First of all, going to places with waits is a deplorable waste of precious mimosa-drinking time. Identify brunch spots that take reservations, or are underrated and therefore don’t have lines.

Second, drink your morning allotment of coffee at home, in accordance with two essential life rules: 1. Never rely on a restaurant to provide satisfactory coffee; and 2. Never put yourself in the position of choosing between ordering coffee or a Bloody Mary.

Finally, write the rest of the day off in advance. Forget about going to Bed Bath & Beyond, working out, or whatever constructive activity you thought was a good use of a Sunday. You know what Sundays are for? Mimosas and naps.

Order the bottomless mimosa, then come home and nap on your couch, and try—just try, I beg you—to recognize how glorious it is that your nap is not polluted by the Disney Channel’s babbling child stars and laugh tracks peppered by your own kids’ whining about how they’re bored.

Oh, and about those obnoxious other diners. Sorry about that. It’s just that we moms so rarely get a day pass.

 

Edit ModuleShow Tags
Edit ModuleShow Tags

More »Related Stories

North Park Local Stars in Discovery Channel Reality Show

A new survival show challenges contestants to master the wild

Garden Giveaway!

Armstrong Garden Centers is handing out five $50 gift cards and offering fun, free workshops

4 San Diego Group Bike Rides to Check Out

Take your cycling to the next level by riding in a pack
Edit Module
Edit ModuleShow Tags
Edit ModuleShow Tags

Most Popular

  1. San Diego's Best Restaurants 2016
    From barbecue to vegan options, there’s a bit of manna for everyone in this year’s list of the city’s best
  2. What's It Like to Be the CEO of the Smartest Company in the World?
    We went to Illumina’s headquarters to find out
  3. The 12 Most Important People in Design Right Now
    See what they’re up to and working on in San Diego
  4. 54 Summer Travel Ideas
    Get out of town!
  5. Making a MasterChef
    MasterChef winner Claudia Sandoval on the life-changing ups and downs
  6. Win 1,000 Cash Back on Your Solar Install and 500 Cash
    Brought to you by Sullivan Solar Power
Edit ModuleShow Tags

Promotions

Go Ahead... Ask McMillin!

At McMillin Realty, we are encouraging you to bring us your real estate questions. We will answer these questions….. for free.

More Than 1,300 Prizes are Ready to be Given Away

What are you waiting for? Buy your raffle ticket now

Not Your Grandma's Orthotics

New year, new – shoe? Staying on your feet for long hours at a time just got a whole lot more comfortable with Wiivv’s BASE custom insoles
Edit ModuleShow Tags
Edit Module
Edit Module

Connect With Us:

Edit ModuleShow Tags

Sponsored

Win 1,000 Cash Back on Your Solar Install and 500 Cash

Brought to you by Sullivan Solar Power

Win 2 tickets to Kenny Chesney at Sleep Train Ampitheatre!

Brought to you by Corona Light and Kenny Chesney

Go Ahead... Ask McMillin!

At McMillin Realty, we are encouraging you to bring us your real estate questions. We will answer these questions….. for free.
Edit ModuleShow Tags
Edit Module Edit Module
Edit ModuleShow Tags
Edit ModuleShow Tags